Saturday, April 6, 2013

Manifesting your wildest dreams is a very simple process. Then why isn't it working?

That's easy silly. Because there is something that you either don't understand or there is something that you have got going on in your vibration that you need to adjust. That was easy for me to say, huh?

Three step process

Thought - Feeling - Achievement

These three little steps seem easy enough. I think I am doing that. Well, except for the last one that is. If it's so easy, then how come I am getting it wrong?

Thought
You have to decide what it is you want. It can be anything. Let's use travel as an example. This is one that I hear a lot. I have done a lot of traveling in my life. I often hear people saying, it must have been easy for you because you had the money. Well, actually I didn't. I just made a decision that I wanted to travel. I got specific about it, made it a priority, dreamed a little and then the universe took care of the rest.

Decision
When you are choosing what it is you want, you also have to ask the following question. Does this feel right to me? If you are 5'5" tall and a slight build would it feel right to you to be a line backer for the Eagles? I'm not saying you can't do it, I am asking if it feels right to you. Deep down inside. If it does then go for it. If it doesn't then make a different choice.

Defining that decision 
Ask yourself why? Why do I want this? What is it about this that I find so intriguing? Let's go back to the travel example. If the decision feels right to you then the why's come naturally but it might help the process if you spent some time examining the why. There were a lot of reasons I wanted to travel. I wanted to see and experience everything I could. I wanted to give my children the same gift that I was given by my parents, travel is an excellent tool for broadening your horizons. This was an invaluable lesson for me and I wanted my children to experience that too. I love people and getting to know different people, what better way than in their environment. I wanted to experience all the different sights and sounds and smells and tastes and and and and....You get my point. Defining why you want what you want helps with the feeling part. It provides inspiration and determination.

Getting specific
So you have made your choice, you know why you chose it, now you have to get specific. For me, I decided on where I was going to start. What was my first destination? Manchester, England seemed like a good place to start. I have loads of family there and England is close to all Europe has to offer. This excited me. From there my plans (wishes) just seemed to flow. One thought brought the next and then the next and before long I knew exactly what I wanted.

Feeling
This happens naturally during the decision process. As you figure out what and why and how the feelings just happen. The more time you spend thinking about your choice the more the feelings grow. Use your imagination to see yourself doing and experiencing everything that you had decided upon. Do this until you get to the point of feeling like you have already done it. Once you have created this level of feeling then you have it. Your mind doesn't know the difference between having actually experienced it and you are thinking about a memory or it is something that you have imagined. Once you are here at this point. you can let go and let God. (Source or what ever term you personally use)

Achievement
I think a lot of us make the mistake that once we get to this point all we have to do is sit back and wait for it to happen to us. WRONG. Once you reach this point you have to be on the look out for the opportunities. You have to watch for the things that the universe is laying at your feet for you to pick up. You have to take action.

Action
This is a very important part of the process. If you don't action then you are never going to achieve anything on your list. Let's go back to the travel example. There were quite a few things that I had to do in order to actual travel. The universe gave me the things I needed to do in the order that was needed. I had to take the universe up on all of the offers it made to me about my dream. It didn't always look like I was achieving anything but each step I completed lead me closer and closer to the realization of it. Within a few months everything was in place and the reality was there. It was awesome. Just awesome. I remember walking down a street near my sisters house in Cumbria with my girls and a feeling of sheer joy passed through me. I felt the satisfaction of having really achieved a dream. This was an incredible feeling. I can't tell you how much gratitude I felt at that moment.


If I can do it, you can do it. Have fun, be easy about it and let it all come together naturally. 



7 comments:

  1. Nice article Carrie. I like the way we are carried along with you in your dream. Your article reminds me of an inspiration for an album of music I composed, entitled "Dream Out-loud".... ;)

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    1. Thank you Jeremusic. I appreciate your comments.

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  2. Yes I can agree with Mr. Jeremusic. Your words place your readers kinda sorta in your thought dream. I like the moment by moment examples of the process of creation...well done. Thank you.

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    1. I am just trying to make it as simple as possible. I know that I have been frustrated over the years because although I understood all the information and agreed with it there was no one who actually taught me how in a way I got it. There always seemed to be a major piece missing. Just like in the Secret. OK so the Secret left out a whole lot and of course it had to. It had to be generic. A starting point for a lot of people.

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    2. Sorry, and thank you for your lovely comment. I meant to say that as well.

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  3. Carrie this is about dream manifestation. To me this is the hardest part, as it has three steps to process and mind has to channel it in a special way to see results, so it is most disciplined time, at the end is the pot of gold. Your explanation in the article has made it simpler to follow. Cool presentation.

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