In order to get this right we are going to have to go through a little process here. Do you know what attributes this magical, perfect person for you posses? You might imagine them to have an humanitarian nature. They are actively involved in their community. They have a life of there own. Their sense of humor just has you laughing all the time. Their interests are similar to yours. They care about the environment. And the all important question to me anyway is, do they like dogs or cats? This one question, alone, can make or break it for me. hahaha. I think you get my point. Get specific, right down to are they left or right handed? Write it out. OK now this is done and you are really clear about what it is you want in your perfect partner for you, here is the real question....
Here comes Mr or Mrs. Right. You are introduced to them and you are just blown away. But would they look twice at you? What is it you are bringing to the table? Are you someones Mr or Mrs. Right? Do you live up to the image you created for your perfect lover? No? Then it looks like you have some work to do. I don't mean that you should change who you are but I am saying that maybe it is time to get in alignment with who you are and start living the life you actually want to live. In doing so you are attracting to you Mr. or Mrs. Right. You see you are highly unlikely to come across Mr. Outdoor Nature Loving Greek God sitting on the couch munching potato chips. What happens when you start to build a picture of the perfect mate you also build a picture of the perfect lifestyle. Start living the lifestyle.
Being clear about the request is important. Using your imagination increases the emotion surrounding Mr. or Mrs. Wonderful is essential. But at some stage you have to bring action into the equation. Inspired action. You will find that as you become clear about your intention and you start putting it into action that all manner of things start falling into place.
I was also raised a Catholic, and to be honest I don't go to church, but I believe that the teachings I received, Honour your parents, especially your mother, and later your wife, is essential cornerstones to social well being. Catholic teaching spend a lot of time honouring Mary, the madonna, children, and the family,which has had a lasting impact on me.
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